Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

A living history of Hedonism II: The Swinger In Chief (an interview with Hedonism Resorts CEO Harry Lange)

The culmination of a three-part series on the most notorious resort on the planet, Hedonism II. Mickey & Mallory catch up with Harry Lange, the CEO of Hedonism Resorts to talk all things Hedo and, what it means to be a "Swinger in Chief*."

Find out more about the purchase of the resort, the key upgrades, some of the groups that attend, and what's in the next chapter of the legendary destination in Negril, Jamaica. Don't miss this rare opportunity to hear the latest and greatest from the man himself!

Hedonism II Resort

A living history of Hedonism II: The Winds of Change

The winds of change blew through the expansive property of Hedonism II* just a few years ago. In the face of potential financial ruin, a group of dedicated customers and entrepreneurs led by Jon Gross of Unwind Travel came together to save the place many people call "home." Hear the story of how it happened from the guy himself, and a little more about what makes this place so special.

Unwind Travel: Travel to Hedonism and more

Hedonism II Resort

A living history of Hedonism II: The Ultimate Ambassador

The first in a three part series, Mickey & Mallory sit down with one of the longest tenured guests in the history of Hedonism II! We hear stories spanning 38 years of the most notorious resort, perhaps on Earth!

Howard Harinstein isn't just a customer of Hedonism II*, he's the ultimate ambassador. He runs the Sandy Hook Reunion party in NJ, a Super Bowl Gathering, and spends 6 weeks (minimum) a year at Hedonism II. His efforts to keep people together not just year-round, but OVER the years have made him a celebrity at Hedonism II, and we sat down with him to learn a little more about what he feels are the highlights (and lowlights) of his years as a hedonist.

Don't miss parts two and three, where we interview Jon Gross of the Fluffernutters, who is widely credited with saving the resort, and Harry Lange, the majority owner of the resort! These interviews will give you an insight into the history and dynamics of everyone's favorite resort like you've never had before!

Hedonism Sandy Hook Reunion Facebook Page

What Became of Negril Beach Village Facebook Page

In the Name of Love: Author, Broadcaster, Entrepreneur, Sex Educator...Beth Liebling!

Love, laughter, life, and of course...sex! Mickey & Mallory catch up with one of the most dynamic personalities they've met in their lifestyle journey, an ex-divorce attorney turned sex educator and coach, Beth Liebling! From her podcast to her book, to an ESPN radio show on the same subjects, Beth encourages positivity and sexuality everywhere she goes. She's the founder and owner of "The Darling Way" adult boutique in Houston, Texas and joins us here on Casual Swinger to enlighten and entertain!

Segment One: 00:46

Mickey & Mallory catch up on what's new, a discount code from Darling Way*, and the "taboo" of lifestyle vs other alternative lifestyles

Segment Two: 23:48

"In the name of love..." meet Beth Liebling, proprietor of "The Darling Way," an adult boutique in Houston, TX! Learn what led her down the path to be an Ivy League educated entrepreneur focusing on helping people have happier, better lives...and even BETTER sex!

Segment Three: 77:10

"Swingin' in the news" There's a house in Maple Glen, PA for sale, and EVERYONE is talking about it! This "private sex oasis" went viral last week and the neighbors are NONE too happy about it!

Links


Darling Way Boutique, Houston TX


Twitter Link for Casual Swinger's Crave Vesper Giveaway


Secrets Hideaway Lifestyle Club


Crave Vesper Necklace


"The Sex House" on Redfin


Buzzfeed coverage of "The Sex House"


Vice Coverage of "The Sex House" with great pictures!


Lone Star Spanking Party


Picture of the ORIGINAL "Sex House" listing on Redfin

What the FUD?! - Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt in the lifestyle

Mickey & Mallory dig into three of the most destructive emotions in the lifestyle; Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt!
They discuss how those emotions play into common lifestyle interactions, what some of the most common fears are affecting LS couples, and how to overcome some of them.

Then, former adult film star Jeff James* joins us for a new segment we call "WWJD," or "What Would Jeff Do?"  We discuss one of the most paralyzing fears in the lifestyle, performance anxiety.  How to beat it (no pun intended) and look like a pro!

Hedonism II Resort, Negril Jamaica
Jeff & Aubrie's Art Instagram
Rachals Rascals
Pineapple Parties Jacksonville

 

What's Up, Doc? Introducing sex positive therapist, Ieshai Bailey!

Mickey & Mallory introduce PhD* candidate and certified sex therapist, Ieshai Bailey.  This hyper-qualified, but still sexy and fun professional joins us to talk sex therapy and the lifestyle and some of the ways therapy can help couples exploring the lifestyle.

We also cover a user review from a listener who purchased one of Mallory's recommended toys, the Crave vibe!

Don't miss this episode, it's FULL of great, sex positive information for lifestylers of all experience levels.

Introduction: 00:45

What's Up Doc? : Introducing Ieshai Bailey - 20:20

Mallory's Toybox : Review results on the Crave vibe 76:00

 

Links:

Therapist Ieshai Bailey's Website
Live Health Online - Telehealth
Therapist Ieshai Bailey's Instagram
Crave Vibrators
Sliquid Lubricant

Hedo, she wrote... (catching up with the author of "The Naked Truth About Hedonism II")

Mickey & Mallory have one of the busiest lifestyle weekends in the history of ever, and catch up with the amazing author of "The Naked Truth About Hedonism II."  Learn more about what led this wild child, turned professor, to become a lifelong citizen of the "zoo" and live to write about it!  Ring in the New Year in style with Mickey & Mallory!

Chris Santilli is the author of several books, one of the most noteworthy being the definitive guide to the most notorious resort on the planet, Hedonism II.  Mickey and Mallory sit down to discuss her book, what drove her to write it, and how the resort has changed over the years and across three revisions of her book.

In "Cocktail Corner," you'll learn how you can grab your very own copy of Chris' list of "Hedo Recipes" where you can make your own Caribbean drinks in the comfort of your own home!

Happy New Year, friends!

 

Intro:  01:00

Happy New Year!  The best date in forever and a house party 03:00

Hedo, She Wrote - An interview with author Chris Santilli 24:00

Cocktail Corner - Get your tropical drinks here!  72:00

 

Author Chris Santilli's Home Page
Amazon - The Naked Truth About Hedonism II
Secrets Hideaway, Florida

I want a PORN star for XXXmas!

It's CHRISTMAS* in Swingerville!

Mickey & Mallory get together to talk about the things we want to see under our SWINGmas tree and maybe in the new year! We play a game where we go back and forth with our personal lists just for you!

When we're done with the lists, we have a GIFT for our friends out there in our special guest, former adult film star Jeff James! Jeff joins us from California where he teaches seminars, paints, entertains, and is otherwise an active member of the lifestyle around Club FA in Los Angeles. Jeff shares some of his favorite tips on how YOU can *fuck like a porn star!.*

Finally, it's Christmas so naturally, we get into Mallory's TOYBOX! She covers another of her favorite toys, the Crave necklace, a real crowd pleaser! Learn more about this fashion accessory that doubles as a vibrator. Or...is that the other way around?

Segment 1

"Christmas in Swingerville!" Mallory and Mickey exchange their desires for Christmas and the new year as relates to the lifestyle.  - 05:55

Segment 2 

"I want a PORN star for XXXmas!" Introducing our friend JEFF JAMES! He's a former adult film star, an artist, a teacher, and an active member of the lifestyle. He talks about life, his relationships, and how you can "fuck like a porn star!"  20:00

Segment 3

"Mallory's Toybox" Mallory gets into one of her favorite toys, the CRAVE necklace!  66:53

Links

Crave Adult Toys - Discreet & Sexy
Classy Adult Sexy Gear
Amazon - When all else fails
Jeff the Body Painter IMDB - The Hollywood Database
Club FA - Lifestyle in CA

Talk to me, Goose! Communicating in the lifestyle

Nope, it's not a cheesy 80's movie "quote-along," it's another episode of Casual Swinger!

**Note - We had some funky audio issues* that presented themselves after we recorded this episode.  Sorry guys!  We'll have it sorted for the next show, but we're definitely aware!**

Today we're getting together to talk about our communication fails in our lifestyle journey and the importance of communication as lifestylers.  Whether you're communicating amongst yourselves or with new friends, you'll either pick up some tips for your own adventures or just get a laugh out of us screwing up ours!

Once we're done talking about how wrong we did it, we'll talk about some "exit strategies," or ways to communicate your way out of (or into!) situations in the LS.

Finally, we cover a swing club in Sacramento that doubled as a CHURCH and was recently shut down by city administrators.  Persecution or enforcing the law?  Find out more about the situation on Swingin' in the news!

Segment 1

Intro & travels - All about our new episode, holiday woes, and what we've been up to since our last podcast, plus what's coming up soon!  - 00:46

Segment 2 

"Talk to me, Goose!" Communicating in the lifestyle, why we totally sucked at it, and what we learned from the experience.  08:40

Segment 3

Exit Strategies - subtle ways to communicate your wants and needs with your partners in the lifestyle, and the most important things to remember while you're at it.  37:54

Bonus - Swingin' in the news!

A Sacramento lifestyle club gets shut down by authorities, but is everything what it seems?  A church, and meeting place, a social club...when is a lifestyle club something else entirely, and is it really cut & dry?  We tell you all about it and leave the rest for you to decide.  56:12

 

Links

Suspected Sex Club Shut Down
Neighbors Outraged Over Sex Club
Tabu Social Club in MD
Naughty in Nawlins

"Get yer finger outta my ass!," and other things we heard on vacation

It's another episode of Casual Swinger!

We're back from our epic vacation to the beautiful Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica!  As usual, hilarity was everywhere as we attempted to entertain our friends at Rachal's Rascals and make a few new friends along the way.

Naturally a few swing fails happened, some amazing parties, and an invasion of guests the likes of which the resort has never seen before.  This recap of our vacation will undoubtedly not cover it all but we'll do our best!

We made some new friends, the "Average Swingers*" from Texas, and scored some interviews for a new series we'll be working on in the coming weeks.

Segment 1

The faces of Hedonism - Welcome to the sexy freak parade! 04:10

Segment 2

Hedonism II is a box of chocolates...very, very weird chocolates 34:57

Segment 3

Cocktail Corner - The "Dirty" Banana and the Hummingbird 60:07

 

Links

Hedonism II
Rachal's Rascals
Average Swingers Podcast
Dirty Perv Week
Chris Santilli - Author of "The Naked Truth about Hedonism II"
Travel2Swing - The website for Mark & Carly
The Fluffernutters